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Stepping into the Darkness

Himalayan Mountains, Nepal 2010

With each step, the ambient light from the house dissipated. The ground was cold and my eyes strained to see where I was going. I dared not turn around or look up, too afraid that doing so would cause a giant creature to materialize from the darkness and swallow me in one gulp.

I was nine years old and although I had long since overcome my fear of the darkness inside the house, the dark forest surrounding the yard still held me hostage.

It was holding me prisoner, preventing me from exploring those places that my siblings wouldn’t dream of going. I wanted to take that next step. I wanted to conquer darkness altogether.

One evening, without telling anyone in the house, I opened the back door and stared into the forest. The darkness was incredible. It shrouded everything in mystery, turning the daytime-yard that I was so familiar with into an unknown world of terrifying possibilities. Continue reading →

Fear of Failure as a Barometer for Success

Fully loaded soda bottle truck in Kathmandu, Nepal

“Fear of failure is a ticket to mediocrity. If you’re not failing from time to time, you’re not pushing yourself. And if you’re not pushing yourself, you’re coasting.” – Eric Zorn

That quote came across my screen after having spent almost twenty minutes aimlessly passing time on Facebook. I suddenly realized that for the past few weeks I haven’t been pushing myself or risking failure. I’ve been coasting.

Case in point: I wasn’t going to publish anything on this blog today. I had already decided that my next post would be on Friday. It was easier that way. I had no idea what to write and I was relying on inspiration to strike at some point between now and then to write a great post.

The truth is that ever since releasing my first ebook and visiting the schools in Nepal, I’ve felt the pressure from my inner perfectionist to continue outdoing myself. Continue reading →

Why There Is No Secret To Success

Success is one of those things that just about everybody wants, but not nearly as many people do what it takes to achieve. It’s the expensive sports car, island home, or supermodel body that never goes any further than the thought that originated the idea.

It’s the reason why so many people search for a “secret to success”; they want it, but they’re afraid of what it might take to get there. They’re looking for an easy path; a magic pill that will solve all their problems along the way and give them what they want with minimal effort. Continue reading →

What does it mean to be successful?

Success isn’t something you can frame on the wall. It’s not something that you can attain once and then discard as having accomplished it. It’s not a level of achievement or an objective. It’s not a social status or the amount of money in the bank. It’s not how many languages I can speak or how many businesses I have founded.

For me, success means two things occurring simultaneously in the present moment:

  1. Doing everything that’s possible to work towards my goals
  2. Being happy

If we’re happy in the present moment, we are successful.

If we’re doing everything that’s possible in the present moment to move towards our goals, we are successful.

The goal I’m working towards in the present moment might be as simple as “getting ready for the day” or “making breakfast”. It might be “finishing a blog post” or even “pumping gas so I can get to work”.

Whatever my goal is in the present moment, if I’m accomplishing everything necessary to reach that goal and my mind is happy and at peace, then I feel successful.

To be successful we need to break free from the idea that success is a mountain that must be ascended. We must realize that success is what we make it. If we choose to make success unattainable, then it will be unattainable. If we choose to realize that nothing can stop us from reaching our goals, no matter how far-fetched, then we have already succeeded.

Success is being able to manage our mind under all circumstances.

The day that I considered myself to be successful was the day I decided that nothing was going to stop me from achieving the craziest of my goals. – Earl Baron

But what if you don’t have any goals? In that case your goal should be to free yourself of anything that might be preventing you from discovering your purpose — from discovering the life you want to live.

If you’re content just living, just being, that’s a goal too. Striving for freedom from pain and ignorance is an excellent way to live.

Success is the complete eradication of ego, because ego is the only thing that stands in the way of my absolute freedom from pain and ignorance. – Jai Dev

Success is a frame of mind and a way of thinking. It’s not a destination or an objective.

Success is knowing what’s possible, not just believing in it.

Success is purposeful action in motion.

What does success mean to you? What does it mean to be successful?

This post is part of a unique project organized by my buddy Jonny from TheLifeThing.com to put together a free ebook about success. Jonny asked 30 bloggers, including myself, for their personal definitions of success and how they achieve it. He then requested that we write a blog post about success to announce the free book and create a flood of inspiration around the topic. This book is totally free and full of inspirational perspectives on success. Download The SUCCESS eBook.

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