Then you must tell your sister not to spoil the little nephew :)! I don’t have children but I don’t think I will buy them tons of toys to show my love – in fact, one of my fears and reasons for not having children is that because my life is so comfortable, they will grow to be spoiled against all odds….Anyway I digress – I just wanted to agree and add that without sustaining our health and mental well-being first, nothing can be sustained so that is first and foremost…..!