When kids move past play and start to recognize their failures, it is so important to celebrate their try rather than wallow in the results. I try to encourage this in my kids all the time. I loved reading this post. I just randomly stumbled on your blog and the little I’ve read is fascinating. I can’t wait to dive into it more. I also homeschool my children and recently wrote a post about our love of failure. If you’re interested: https://adventuresinteachingmyown.com/2016/12/27/be-a-failure/