I like this thought. I would take it a step further..often in relating, people are very willing to apply labels and blame to another (as in *you* are being resistant) but are unwilling to see within their own self for the misunderstanding. When I relate, I believe that all that I see reflected back to me *is me*…so if there is tension (let’s say I think oh man, that person is so resistant), I immediately look within my self to see where am *I* being resistant, what may *I* release or embrace. This technique is based upon transparency and is pretty radical, but is very peace filled and allows me to grow. I am accountable for my thoughts and actions, so I shift my own thoughts with inner clarity..any misunderstanding is *my* reluctance to See fully.
Joy, thank you for sharing here! I love what you said about seeing all that is reflected back to you, *as you*. That’s an incredibly powerful way to be transparent with ourselves. 🙂
I like this thought. I would take it a step further..often in relating, people are very willing to apply labels and blame to another (as in *you* are being resistant) but are unwilling to see within their own self for the misunderstanding. When I relate, I believe that all that I see reflected back to me *is me*…so if there is tension (let’s say I think oh man, that person is so resistant), I immediately look within my self to see where am *I* being resistant, what may *I* release or embrace. This technique is based upon transparency and is pretty radical, but is very peace filled and allows me to grow. I am accountable for my thoughts and actions, so I shift my own thoughts with inner clarity..any misunderstanding is *my* reluctance to See fully.
Joy, thank you for sharing here! I love what you said about seeing all that is reflected back to you, *as you*. That’s an incredibly powerful way to be transparent with ourselves. 🙂